Having a hard time with your love life? Maybe your home just doesn’t have good chi. The Chinese have always believed that everything is surrounded by energy. Sometimes that energy is positive, sometimes it’s negative. Sometimes that energy can be more active, sometimes more passive.
location can be conducive to the positive flow of energy, or it can impede good energy and make way for the undesirable. The ancient art of feng shui uses the principle of creating optimum energy flow in your surroundings in order to bring desired energies into your life—like love.
Maybe you don’t need to worry about those internet dating sites, spa treatments or expensive shoes—maybe all you really needed was to re-arrange your furniture. Understanding the principles of feng shui might be able to turn things around for you.
In Feng Shui, one looks at a space as a matrix (called a Bagua) and makes treatments to obtain harmony and order in areas that are out of balance.
We seek to create a positive flow of chi. In relationships, the area of the home that designates relationships is the South West or Kun. The relationships will suffer if there is disharmony in this area of the home and the bedroom. If the house for example has this part of the structure cut out of it for some reason, there will be a problem with this area flowing. In the bedroom, if this area is filled with clutter, dirty clothes and junk, this area of life will suffer.
To open up the chi in this area and to bring luck into the area of relationships there are some simple placements and treatments that you can do.
In this area, you can place beautiful living plants. If they are flowering plants so much the better. Not three plants. Not one plant. Not ten plants. Two plants.
Also, a wind chime in this area will attract chi. I have a crystal hanging in this area that reflects light in from the outside. If no windows are in the area, you might consider hanging a beautiful mirror.
A statue of two lovers would be a perfect treatment. Remove any sharp objects from the area because they cut chi. Also if this area has a window that is direct across from another window or a door you must hang a crystal to capture the positive chi. This would be a very positive location to put an altar to love with an incense burner using the incense of the scent of roses or lavender. The color pink will also work very well in this area.
Here are Another 10 Feng Shui Tips to Attract Love in 2023:
Open Yourself to Opportunities
Start on your own front porch. If you’re looking for any opportunities—such as a new romance—you need to be seen. In order to bring this principle into your life, make sure your house numbers are displayed visibly, and that you have a good porch light for the nighttime. Make sure whenever your date is coming at night to pick you up or drop you off, the porch light is on.
Clean Your Bedroom
One of the most important principles of feng shui is that, if you want your life to be happy and filled with good things, you have to make your home filled with good things. Things that are unattractive, in disrepair, or cluttered only bring negativity into your life. This is not a good place for dates or for starting a new relationship. Get your home in order to get your lives in order, and you may find that you are opening your way to love.
If your bedroom is untidy, the flow of energy is going to be slow and weak.
Therefore, you need to put everything in order, to allow the energy to circulate unimpeded so that it can bring all the positive things to your love life.
Once you are done cleaning, use a bell or clap your hands to eliminate the stuck energy and make room for another flow of energy.
Even if you are single and live alone, you don’t want to make your bedroom into a room for one. You want to leave potential room for two.
Take care to make the bedroom attractive and romantic. Make sure it’s comfortable and functional for two people. Design it as though you are preparing to welcome a new partner into your life.
If you have a seating area, put two seats side-by-side instead of one. Get a double bed and dress it with comfortable bedding. Leave space in the closets and some drawers for another person to come in and share that space with you. Even when you do meet someone who moves in, the closet and drawer spaces need ‘breathing room’ to allow the energy to flow.
Free Some Bedroom Space
If you want to find your half or you want your current relationship to get more serious and closer to marriage, make room for another person in your bedroom.
Take a look inside your closet and drawers, especially in the bedroom, and if they are overfilled with your stuff, make a goal to empty out some of them.
When you managed to do so, admire how they look empty and imagine the things of your loved one placed there.
Use the Feng Shui Power Of The Mandarin Ducks
If you want a love life full of luck, a beautiful marriage and to attract only positive energies in your romantic life, you need to place the Mandarin Ducks on the southwest side of your bedroom.
Bring In some Earthy Elemental Energies
According to the principles of feng shui, the southwestern part of the house is associated with the element of Earth. You need to place artwork in the southwestern that has forceful earth energies, such as a marble statue or clay vase.
This artwork should depict love in some way—but avoid any symbols of water, metal or wood in it. These should not be in the realm of earth in the southwest.
When choosing any kind of artwork for the house, it’s traditional to use drawings that have depth, symbolism and strong visual impact. You should steer clear of any artwork that features heartache, unrequited love, infidelity or tragic love circumstances of any kind. You don’t want to attract such energies into your home.
Don’t Keep Objects That Remind You of Failed Relationships
Remove from your home, especially from your bedroom, any object that belonged to an ex-lover.
Also, any letters, pictures, or other physical reminiscence of a relationship that ended up badly have no place in your home, no matter how romantic or nostalgic you are.
Remove Any Negative Representations
The images and the objects surrounding you affect your life more than you could ever imagine.
Remove the paintings, sculptures, or photos representing negative situations, loneliness, sadness, war, fights, etc.
They can bring you negative energies and create a tense atmosphere in your love life.
Open Up To Love
Make sure your main door, as well as your bedroom door, can be easily and fully opened, without creaking or getting blocked by the things placed behind. This way, you allow the energy to flow and intensify your love life.
Free The Path For the Chi Energy
Walk slowly from your house’s main door to the bedroom, imagining you are a river of Chi energy.
Track the route with your eyes and observe any object or piece of furniture that might hinder the free flow of Chi energy and remove them.
Also, make sure that all the lighting elements on this route are functioning and that there are no dark corners left.
Move Your Bed
If one side of the bed is touching the wall, the person who is sleeping facing the wall could feel deprived of freedom, restricted, or stuck in the relationship.
If it’s possible, move your bed so that both sides are at an equal distance from the walls.
The ideal position for the bed is on the opposite side of the door, but not in a straight line with it.
If you can’t see the door when sitting on the bed, place a mirror on the wall to help you access the room door.
Don’t Exercise in The Bedroom
Don’t train and don’t store your sports equipment in the bedroom. The effort you put in when exercising will be transposed in your love life.
And, certainly, you don’t want your relationship to feel like a sustained effort.
Make Your Intentions Clear
Make a collage using images that represent your idea of romance and harmony.
Place it somewhere where you can view it on a daily basis.
If you are already involved in a relationship, ask your lover to help you make the collage – it will show your intention to build a bright and happy future together.