In Feng Shui, one looks at a space as a matrix (called a Bagua) and makes treatments to obtain harmony and order in areas that are out of balance.
We seek to create a positive flow of chi. In relationships, the area of the home that designates relationships is the South West or Kun. If there is disharmony in this area of the home and/or the bedroom, the relationships will suffer. If the house for example has this part of the structure cut out of it for some reason, there will be a problem with this area flowing. In the bedroom, if this area is filled with clutter, dirty clothes and junk, this area of life will suffer.
To open up the chi in this area and to bring luck into the area of relationships there are some simple placements and treatments that you can do.
In this area, you can place beautiful living plants. If they are flowering plants so much the better. Not three plants. Not one plant. Not ten plants. Two plants.
Also, a wind chime in this area will attract chi. I have a crystal hanging in this area that reflects light in from the outside. If no windows are in the area, you might consider hanging a beautiful mirror.
A statue of two lovers would be a perfect treatment. Remove any sharp objects from the area because they cut chi. Also if this area has a window that is direct across from another window or a door you must hang a crystal to capture the positive chi. This would be a very positive location to put an altar to love with an incense burner using the incense of the scent of roses or lavender. The color pink will also work very well in this area.
Here are Another 10 Feng Shui Tips to Attract Love in 2022
1. Clean your bedroom
If your bedroom is untidy, the flow of energy are going to be slow and weak.
Therefore, you need to put everything in order, to allow the energy to circulate unimpeded so that it can bring all the positive things to your love life.
Once you are done cleaning, use a bell or clap your hands to eliminate the stuck energy and to make room for another flow of energy.
2. Free some bedroom space
If you want to find your half or you want your current relationship to get more serious and closer to marriage, make room for another person in your bedroom.
Take a look inside your closet and drawers, especially in the bedroom, and if they are overfilled with your stuff, make a goal to empty out some of them.
When you managed to do so, admire how they look empty and imagine the things of your loved one placed there.
3. Use the Feng Shui power of the mandarin ducks
If you want a love life full of luck, a beautiful marriage and to attract only positive energies in your romantic life, you need to place these ducks on the southwest side of your bedroom.
4. Don’t keep objects that remind you of failed relationships
Remove from your home, especially from your bedroom, any object that belonged to an ex-lover.
Also, any letters, pictures, or another physical reminiscence of a relationship that ended up badly have no place in your home, no matter how romantic or nostalgic you are.
5. Remove any negative representations
The images and the objects surrounding you affect your life more than you could ever imagine.
Remove the paintings, sculptures, or photos representing negative situations, loneliness, sadness, war, fights etc.
They can bring upon you negative energies and create a tense atmosphere in your love life.
6. Open up to love
Make sure your main door, as well as your bedroom door, can be easily and fully opened, without creaking or getting blocked in the things placed behind. This way, you allow the energy to flow and to intensify your love life.
7. Free the path for the Chi energy
Walk slowly from your house’s main door to the bedroom, imagining you are a river of Chi energy.
Track the route with your eyes and observe any object or piece of furniture that might hinder the free flow of Chi energy and remove them.
Also, make sure that all the lighting elements on this route are functioning and that there are no dark corners left.
8. Move your bed
If one side of the bed is touching the wall, the person who is sleeping facing the wall could feel deprived of freedom, restricted, or stuck in the relationship.
If it’s possible, move your bed so that both sides are at an equal distance from the walls.
The ideal position for the bed is on the opposite side of the door, but not in a straight line with it.
If you can’t see the door when sitting on the bed, place a mirror on the wall to help you gain visibility to the room door.
9. Don’t exercise in the bedroom
Don’t train and don’t store your sports equipment in the bedroom. The effort you put in when exercising will be transposed in your love life.
And, certainly, you don’t want your relationship to feel like a sustained effort.
10. Make your intentions clear
Make a collage using images that represent your idea of romance and harmony.
Place it somewhere where you can view it on a daily basis.
If you are already involved in a relationship, ask your lover to help you make the collage – it will show your intention to build a bright and happy future together.